And yet, we’re obsessed with making every little thing count! In this article I’ll be exploring life beyond the “like”, and focusing on what really matters.
- Is your Twitter account chirping followers or crickets?
- Are you on a mission to get a lot of Facebook loving?
- Do you’re pins travel the globe, first class – with a jet pack?
Are you craving someone to like you? Is this even about you ? It’s not. It’s about your story, it’s about your mission, and it’s about living a life on purpose. Sure, every SuperNova deserves her glimmer, but it’s not about life in the middle of the spot light. If you’re after that, then you might as wall join the line to get into Hollywood! This is not the way to score how awesome you really are.
I’ll chat more about how you can measure you’re awesomeness in an upcoming blog – so watch this space!
Before I get onto that topic let’s look at the truth of where we are. We’re searching for acceptance, appreciation and above all love! It’s human nature.
The problem is when we conflate our work with ourselves.
Let me tell you a trivial but really real little story. I was putting together a workbook for a coach training program a couple of years back and I poured ever ounce of myself into it. Everything came together last-minute, all the printers were closed, and I needed to get all the book bound. So I borrowed a machine and spent half the night trying to figure it out and bind 30+ books. (A feat proving tricky with zero muscle tone.) It was tedious, laborious, and filled with gremlins. The next day I rocked up, with 2 unbound books, and a serious case of “I failed!” I couldn’t hear the compliments because of two books (which we did not end up using!).
I measured my success by being two books short of the original quota which became an outright fail.I didn’t consider the turnout of the workshop @ 95%. The quality of the content in the book. Or the level of transformation and value each of the students actually got. My not performing 110% and meeting expectations crushed me.
So how does this trace back to social media. Well it’s not very different … in principle. The more likes we think we accumulate means more success. You might think it means you’ll lock more sales … but we both know that’s not always the case. Quality trumps quantity any day… and it pays
We just want to be seen, valued, heard, and accepted and since most of our lives are spent plugged into the digital … we think all those emotions IN the digital realm too.
That’s why we hunt for likes, and friends, or why we do a happy dance is a bigger name retweets us….
All of a sudden we’re in the league of awesome.
And yet, we just fell for the oldest trick in the book… didn’t we?
So how do you measure your success?
Let me know in the comments section below: